Unapologetically Wild with Mary Giordano

10. You’re Already Consistent - And I’m About to Prove It To You

First, let’s take a moment to celebrate hitting 10 episodes! 🎉Thank you for tuning in, sharing, and showing up for this podcast, I couldn’t do it without you.
Think you’re struggling with consistency?Let me flip that belief on its head because you’re already consistent… just not in the way you think.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about consistency, why you’re not actually “inconsistent,” and how the habits you repeat every day, whether helpful or not, are shaping your identity and your outcomes.
We’ll also talk about the concept of casting votes for your identity, something inspired by Atomic Habits by James Clear, and how misdirected consistency might be keeping you stuck without you even realizing it.
If you’ve ever said:
“I just need to be more consistent with working out.”
“I wish I could eat healthy and stick with it.”
“If I could just stay consistent, everything would finally fall into place…”This one’s for you.
Because your problem isn’t consistency—it’s where your consistency is showing up.
🎧 In this episode:
Why you’re more consistent than you think
What “misdirected consistency” is and how it shows up in your daily life
The identity loop you’re reinforcing (without realizing it)
Why motivation is total BS and why systems matter more
A shoutout to Atomic Habits and the “casting votes” concept
One small mindset shift to help you redirect your consistency toward what actually matters
📘 Referenced in this episode
Atomic Habits by James Clear – jamesclear.com/atomic-habits
 
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9. Why You’ll Never “Find” Your Purpose - And Why That’s a Good Thing

How many times have you told yourself you just need to find your purpose - like it’s some missing puzzle piece waiting to be discovered?
What if I told you that’s the very thing keeping you stuck?
In this episode of Unapologetically Wild, we’re flipping the script on everything you’ve been taught about purpose. Because the truth is, purpose isn’t something you find. It’s something you create.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling behind, waiting for clarity, or stuck in the figuring it out phase, this episode will change the way you think about purpose forever.
By the end, you’ll learn:✔️ Why the pressure to “find” your purpose keeps you stuck✔️ How to stop overthinking and start moving toward a meaningful life✔️ The small, daily choices that actually create a sense of purpose✔️ Why waiting for the “right time” is keeping you from living fully✔️ The simple shifts that will help you align your life with what matters to you
📍 Ready to take action?
Join me in Bali for a life-changing adventure designed to help you step out of your day-to-day routine and into something bigger. The deadline to register is April 1st! CLICK HERE to learn more and let’s make it happen.
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8. Lessons From The Wild: What Nature Taught Me About Trust, Confidence, & Fear

If there’s one thing the outdoors has taught me, it’s that real confidence doesn’t come from knowing—it comes from doing.
We spend so much time trying to prepare. We read the books, we listen to the podcasts, we Google ourselves into oblivion—convincing ourselves that if we just gather enough information, we’ll finally feel ready.But here’s the truth: you don’t build confidence by thinking about it—you build it by stepping into the unknown and proving to yourself, over and over, that you can handle it.
Mother Nature doesn’t wait for you to feel ready. She throws you into the moment and forces you to trust yourself. And that’s why she has been my greatest teacher.
In this episode, I’m sharing:🌿 Why trust isn’t something you start with—it’s something you build🔥 How fear isn’t a stop sign—it’s proof you’re growing🚐 The time I pushed my RV (and myself) to the limit💡 The biggest lesson that changed the way I see my own capability
Because the biggest lessons in life? They don’t come from books or waiting until you feel ready. They come from experience. From stepping into adventure, into the wild, and into the unknown.
Ready to Step Outside Your Comfort Zone?
If you’ve been craving adventure—the kind that challenges you, expands you, and reminds you exactly what you're capable of—this is your sign to say YES.
🌴 Bali (May 22-29): Immerse yourself in breathtaking landscapes, deep connection, and the kind of experiences that awaken something deep inside you. Deadline to register April 1, 2025!
🏔 Banff (August 8-13): A rugged, awe-inspiring adventure that will push you beyond what you thought possible - and leave you stronger for it.
📍 Join the adventure: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/mary-5cma2
Spots are limited—if you feel the pull, don’t ignore it. 💫
 
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7. Stop Apologizing - Here’s Why (And What to Say Instead)

If “I’m sorry” is practically your default response, this episode is for you. Women have been conditioned to shrink themselves—to soften their words, cushion their presence, and apologize for simply existing. But every unnecessary “I’m sorry” chips away at your confidence and reinforces the belief that you should be the one adjusting.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into:🔥 Why over-apologizing is more than just politeness—it’s conditioning🔥 A Costco moment that made me really see how often women do this🔥 How apologizing too much impacts your confidence, career, and relationships🔥 The simple language shifts that help you stop saying “I’m sorry” (when you don’t need to)
If you’ve ever caught yourself apologizing for no reason, this is your wake-up call.
What You’ll Learn
✅ Why women over-apologize (and how to break the habit)✅ The sneaky ways we shrink ourselves without realizing it✅ Easy swaps to replace “I’m sorry” with confidence and clarity✅ A simple challenge to help you retrain your brain
How to Stop Over-Apologizing
1️⃣ Notice when you say it – Just pay attention. No need to change it yet.2️⃣ Ask yourself if it’s necessary – Are you actually in the wrong, or just filling space?3️⃣ Swap it out – Try:🔹 “Sorry I’m late” ➡️ “Thanks for waiting.”🔹 “Sorry to bother you” ➡️ “Do you have a moment?”🔹 “Sorry for the mistake” ➡️ “I appreciate your patience.”
Your Challenge
📌 For one day, track how often you say “I’m sorry.”📌 Swap it out when it’s unnecessary.📌 Notice how it changes the way you feel.
Because you were never too much—you were just taught to believe you were.
 
 
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6. The One Habit That Changed My Life (And It’s Not What You Expect)

At 19, I had my first panic attack—and I was convinced I was dying. That moment led me down a path I never saw coming. A doctor handed me a prescription, but what really changed my life? Meditation.
And before you roll your eyes or think, I can’t meditate because my mind won’t shut up—this episode is for you. Because meditation isn’t about clearing your mind, sitting still for 30 minutes, or achieving some mystical Zen state. It’s about training your brain to stop running on autopilot and helping you break free from stress, overwhelm, and overthinking.
In this episode, we’re diving into:✅ How meditation literally rewires your brain (and the science behind it)✅ The biggest myths that hold people back (hint: you don’t have to clear your mind)✅ How to start meditating in just two minutes a day (yes, really)✅ Different types of meditation (because it’s not all sitting on a cushion)✅ How I completely stopped overthinking (and how you can, too)
Because if you’ve ever laid in bed at night, stuck in your head, spiraling about something you said, what you should’ve said, or what so-and-so meant when they didn’t text you back—this is for you.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have everything you need to make meditation part of your life—without making it complicated.
Resources & Mentions:
📌 The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle – A deep dive into mindfulness, presence, and how most stress comes from worrying about the past or future instead of being in the moment.
Meditation Apps:
📌 Insight Timer – Free meditation app with guided sessions, ambient sounds, and courses.
📌 Headspace – Perfect for beginners with structured programs that make meditation feel doable.
📌 Calm – Great for stress relief, sleep meditations, and mindfulness.
📌 Waking Up (by Sam Harris) – A deeper dive into mindfulness, meditation, and the philosophy behind it.
📌 Simple Habit – Quick meditations for busy people—designed for specific moments in your day.
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5. The Truth About Fear (And Why You’re Still Playing Small)

What if fear isn’t what’s actually holding you back? 
You tell yourself you’re afraid—of failure, of judgment, of taking the leap. But what if that’s not the real reason you’re still playing small? What if fear is just a convenient excuse to keep you from facing something deeper?
In today’s episode, I’m breaking down why fear isn’t the real problem—and what actually is. We’re talking about:
🔥 The hidden reason you keep hesitating (and why “overcoming fear” isn’t the answer)🔥 How your identity is the real thing keeping you in the same cycle🔥 The three-step process to rewrite your narrative and finally take action🔥 How to make decisions from the version of you who already has what you want
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same loop of “I can’t” / “I’m not ready” / “What if I fail?”—this episode is going to call you out and call you up.
🚀 Ready to stop waiting and start moving? Let’s fkn go.
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🔥 No more waiting. No more overthinking. You already know what to do. Now go do the fkn thing.
Resources mentioned:
Mind Magic by James Doty
 
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4. People-Pleasing is Making You Miserable: Here’s How to Stop

Hey friends, today’s episode is about to hit deep.
If you’ve ever found yourself bending over backward for people who wouldn’t even lean for you, this is for you.
If you’ve ever said yes when you really meant hell no—this is for you.
If you’ve been taught that being nice means sacrificing your own well-being—this is for you.
In this episode, we’re breaking down:✅ Where people-pleasing actually comes from (spoiler: it’s deeper than just wanting to be “nice”)✅ Why saying no feels so damn hard—and exactly how to change that✅ How to set boundaries without feeling like an asshole✅ How to reclaim your energy, your time, and your f*cking sanity
Here’s the truth: People-pleasing isn’t about kindness—it’s about fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of disappointing others. Fear of being seen as selfish. Fear of losing love.
But at what cost?
💥 Every time you say yes when you really want to say no, you are betraying yourself.💥 Every time you prioritize everyone else’s comfort over your own well-being, you are reinforcing the belief that your needs don’t matter.💥 And every time you keep pouring into people who never pour back? That’s not a friendship. That’s a transaction.
This stops today.
By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to stop over-explaining, apologizing, and justifying your boundaries—and instead, confidently say NO without guilt.
And here’s your challenge:✨ Say NO to something this week.✨ Use one of the responses I share in this episode.✨ Then pay attention—how does it feel? Who respects it? Who doesn’t?
Because the more you start choosing yourself, the more you start living on your own terms.
This is the wake-up call you’ve been needing. So grab your coffee or tea, lace up your shoes for a walk, or just take a deep breath—because this episode is about to change the way you show up for yourself.
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👉 Let’s keep this conversation going—because you don’t need permission to take up space.
 
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3. The Real Reason You Feel Stuck (And How to Break Free)

Welcome back to Unapologetically Wild! Before we dive in, I’ve got some exciting news—thanks to all of your amazing feedback, I’ve decided to start posting weekly instead of every other week. That means you can tune in every Tuesday for a brand new episode!
Now, let’s talk about that restless, nagging feeling of being stuck. You know the one—where life feels like Groundhog Day, like you’re pressing the gas and the brake at the same time, revving the engine but going nowhere.
You’re busy. You’re checking all the boxes. And yet, it still feels like nothing is actually moving forward.
If you’ve been wondering:🚨 Why do I feel stuck, even when I try to change?🚨 Why do I start things but lose momentum?🚨 Why does my brain fight me every time I try to step outside my comfort zone?
Then this episode is for you.
In This Episode, We Cover:
Why feeling stuck isn’t a life sentence—it’s a signal
How your nervous system & dopamine keep you trapped in the same cycle
The difference between real movement & chasing the next high
How microshifts create real, lasting change
The power of curiosity to shake things up
The key to making external & internal shifts that actually stick
A Journal Prompt or Reflection
📖 Try This: Take five minutes today and ask yourself:👉 Am I actually moving forward, or just keeping myself busy?👉 What’s one small action I can take today to create real momentum—without waiting for the “perfect” moment?Write down your thoughts and make a commitment to take that next step.
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